RECENT MESSAGES (since 1982)
Last fall I was ready to die.
I remember thinking to myself
Whatever happens to me
Today, six or seven months later
I'm grateful for all the help she's been to me.
And I'm grateful
And I'm grateful
For all the joy that I feel today.
Sometimes it seems to me
That following the will of God
Is the same as believing that i'm right
i'm uncomfortable with that feeling
and i wonder
if what i believe may not be the will of God after all
and it all gets muddled
and then i feel
that i'm lucky to be just muddling through
a little prayer carne to me in meeting several months ago
Lady, i am the least of your creatures
It was about eighteen years ago
i remember how scared i was
i kept doing this
while i was married we always seemed to be getting
but about a year and a half ago
after we agreed on the audit
that was about a year ago
they want an absurd sum from me
i don't know how i'm going to get out of this
There are three statements attributed to Yeshua, or Jesus as he is
commonly known, which i would class as my favorite sayings from the gospels.
I call them the Lamentations of Yeshua. They are my favorites because
i think they reveal the true nature of the man, and of the deep feeling of
which he was capable.
The first Lamentation happens just after he has decided to make the
trip to Jerusalem for passover, where he has predicted that he would be
killed. It comes right after he has been told that Herod is planning to
arrest him and imprison him, just as he did with John the Baptizer. He
cries out,
The second Lamentation happens just as he arrives at Jerusalem on
that Palm Sunday, and he looks at the city and weeps over the city, and
he says:
The third Lamentation happens while he is on his way to the cross
and it is reported that a great multitude followed him, and that there
were many women in the multitude; and i can just imagine what one of those
women felt: Here is this wonderful man we have learned to love, and he's
going to die, and be gone forever! and i can feel the tears in her eyes
and the knot in her throat. He turns to them and says:
many years ago i was having a conversation with Al Andersen (
whom i'm sure many of you remember) and i told him that i didn't
think of myself as a spiritual person. He said that he did see me
that way, as a mystic, as an idealist...
i'm always faintly amused whenever someone tells me that they
see me differently than i see myself -- my first thought is
always, One of us must be wrong (and there's a 50 percent
chance that it's me).
but this morning it occurred to me that both of us could be
right, like light being both particles and waves...
sometime after that conversation, though, i coined the phrase
"visionary pragmatist" for myself, which means that what is most
important to me is what is; what is in front of me; what calls for
some form of action on my part...but also that i can see beyond what
is -- or look beyond it, anyway; i don't know if i actually see very
much -- i look past what is to what might be or what could be...but
i never let that become more important to me than what is...what is
in front of me.
On this second day of November
This morning was the 4th Sunday meeting to discuss the queries.
This month they were on Equality. There were only three of us here;
these meetings have always been small. So this morning i began to
formulate a new query: Do Friends still believe in the Queries; or
do we still believe in using them for corporate examination and
self-examination? Or have we come to think they are only for
personal reflection? or worse, that they have become only a symbol
for what Friends believe? that is, we say that Friends do not have
a creed, but we formulate our beliefs as questions instead?
The corporate use of the queries has always been very helpful
to me, for example, in this morning's discussion on Equality it forced
me to admit that at least twice in the past weeks i had failed to
measure up to the Queries; and this was helpful to me, or will be help
to me in the future to better conduct myself in accordance with Quaker
ideals.
So i would like to express my hope that more members and attenders
will take an interest in attending the meeting on the queries in the
coming months.
i've been thinking a lot the past couple of weeks about
Quakers and police...when and if ever it was appropriate for
a Quaker to call the police.
partly it seems wrong because they carry guns...and i don't
want to appear to place reliance on people who carry guns.
it's also because they represent a kind of authority which
is forceful and coercive.
i recalled this morning how George Fox in his journal tells
how he had been speaking at a meeting and afterward an angry
person came rushing up to him with his sword drawn and pointed
at him and George Fox simply said, Alack for thee, it's no more
to me than a straw...
and George Fox was certainly beaten enough times for his
speaking and refusing to take off his hat and saying thee and thou...
he also tells how once a crowd had been beating him and he rose
and said, Here are my arms and shoulders, if all you can think of
to do is to beat me...
so i have a strong conviction that Quakers should never call
the police -- i'd rather have them call me -- and i hope there are
other members of the Meeting who feel the same way.
and i have what is perhaps a naive vision -- that in conflict
situations we could get together and have a meeting for worship
i was sitting today in meeting, thinking about the Christmas
story, and about how i had some doubt whether there was really
a choir of angels singing that morning, to announce the birth of
that humble person.
then suddenly, i realized that yes, there probably was such a
choir singing on that morning for that child, and some people were
fortunate enough to hear it; just as the angels sing whenever any
child is born! Every child is a bundle of inestimable worth
and unpredictable potentialities.
and i like to think that, while i think of Jesus as a great man,
about 40 years ago
but as i was thinking over the experience this morning
and then i was thinking about the concern which has been often raised
and i remember Maude Powell once saying to me
(note: i expressed these exact same words about latecomers
in meeting sometime in the late 1970s)
(Margaret Mossman framed a question which was on her mind
and that she thought might be meant just for her...
It was, What does God require of me?)
I think that the question on Margaret's mind is intended
for more than herself
After Judith Stronach's memorial i came away
My thoughts this morning seem to be weightier than usual
One possibility for God's will for the meeting
The second possibility i thought of for God's will for the meeting
The third possibility for God's will for the meeting
(i also considered the possibility that God's will for us
But these thoughts have been with me all morning
This Christmas, during our meeting for worship on Christmas
morning, i have been thinking about the unearthly sight we have
been afforded these past few weeks with the sight of Venus, the
brightest object in the sky after the sun and the moon, as it has
moved out to its extreme distance from the sun and then begun its
lengthy passage ascross the sky to the opposite side of the
heavenly vault, when it becomes the morning star.
But the crowning effect on me as a result of this signt
seen only every few years, has been the consciousness that this
amazing transit of a heavenly object, seen over several weeks
as few other sights are ever seen, is exactly the same as that
which the ancient Sumerians saw seven to ten thousand years ago.
And it makes me one with them over that vast expanse of time.
I've been reading a lot of Epictetus this week.
Anyway, i found one passage in Epictetus
when i read that, at first i was felt inspired and moved by it,
Last night i was reading him again,
But i found this passage last night, and it lifted me out of that
So i wanted to share all of this with the meeting.
I also was thinking this morning,
We had a sort of Christmas eve celebration here last night
There were some messages,
It was a family meeting and there were children in attendance
He said, in his perennial succinct style
And I've been thinking about that this morning
After 70 years of life
But the hidden point in Bernie's message was
So the point is not just that they are playful and happy
my experience seems to have been the opposite of our clerk's
i suspect i was mostly annoyed at this thing cluttering up my wrist
my children gave me a pocket watch one year
but not carrying a timepiece taught me how many clocks
but it also meant that i became aware of the passage of time
but in a perversity of the wide sweep of progress
and i'm just cynical enough to believe
Last night i was reading a book on the history of Berkeley
that same year Aldous Huxley published a novel called "Island"
and that reminded me of George Fox's statement in one of his epistles:
then i remembered Lao Tse's statement in the Tao Te Ching
so to try to tie all of this together
George Fox and some of the other early Friends often referred
to themselves as "in the world, but not of the world". I've often felt
that that described me as well; i don't own a radio, or a television
and i don't subscribe to a newspaper or a magazine (I'm a sort of
ascetic; i try to only have what i need, and i don't want much of
anything except what i truly need.) From one point of view, this means
that i am not well-informed; but i somehow manage to find out what i
need to know, mostly from my children.
And about 50 years ago i remember deciding that i didn't enjoy
celebrating Christmas very much. i went along with it, but i also gave
gifts to people throughout the year, whenever the fancy struck me; but
i didn't really celebrate Christmas, and i gave gifts to my children
because i wanted to give gifts to them, not because it was a December
custom. And i was also thinking that, while i have studied the gospels
intensely, and am perhaps better-informed about their contents than
anyone else in this room, i do not believe that Jesus would have wanted
us to celebrate a mass in his name.
And i was also recalling how about 60 years ago i saw the movie
"The Robe", which is about a Roman soldier who was assigned to Palestine
in the first century CE, and his first assignment was to execute a
political rebel, apparently some kind of nut. i recall the scene from
the movie where Marcellus, that was the soldier's name, was standing
below the cross and there was a blinding flash of light, and Marcellus
wondered, Who was this man, anyway? So he began to roam around Palestine
trying to find out, and then i remember another scene from the movie
where Marcellus went to Nazareth, and talked with a woman there, whose
name happened to be Miriam, who had been visited by Jesus. She was
disabled in some way, but Jesus (who I prefer to call Yeshua) hadn't
healed her. But, she told Marcellus, she had received a much greater
gift from Yeshua than simply being healed of her affliction or disability:
he had given her the gift of radiant happiness in spite of her disability
which she expressed in song and singing for the village residents, who
gathered every day to hear her sing.
i have remembered that scene for more than 50 years, even though i
never saw the movie again, and recently i found the book at an antique flea
market, which i read after all those years, and found that scene in it.
i don't know where the story comes from, or whether it was made up by
Lloyd Douglas, the author; it's not in the gospels, although perhaps it's
found in one of the apocryphal gospels.
This morning i found myself thinking,
Anyway i asked myself this morning,
I also have always had great admiration for Benjamin Franklin.
I don't know how many of you have read his autobiography, but my
favorite statement in it, it was where he was discussing how he had
been told by a Quaker friend that he needed to work on practicing the
virtue of humility, Ben actually had a program that he worked on all
his life of practicing 12 virtues, or 13, concentrating on one of them
each day. And when he was writing about this in his autobiography
he commented about humility, that however much he might be giving the
appearance of humility, he was very far from the reality of it. Tho'
posterity has certainly given him credit for being a very humble
person, as well as a very creative one and very civicly-minded one.
And i have many times thought of myself, that, while for many
years i have aspired to the virtue of unconditional love, that is
to love everyone unconditionally, yet no matter how much i may give
the appearance of it, i am also very far from the reality of it.
This morning i was also humming to myself two of the rounds
i am fasting three days a week to protest against the
budget cuts from social services for poor people and
to urge that cuts be made from the military budget
instead of causing the poorest people of our country
to suffer -- also cuts should be made from corporate
subsidies and the taxes of the rich should not be cut --
footnote: please do not sign HR 910 into law --
thank you -- miriam berg
When i was about 11, i decided, or i made a
decision, that happiness was impossible, and that it wasn't
worth pursuing, and that it wouldn't last, anyway. i describe
it as that i programmmed myself unintentionally and unconsciously
to reject happiness as a concept, i described it as, i put it away
on a shelf as something that there was no point in trying to do
anything with this decision, as i call it, has in fact lasted the
rest of my life. when i heard the previous message, i thought, i'm
happiest when i'm unhappy
so, what do i do? how do i keep going? why do i keep going?
i think that my solution has been to deal with life in a pragmatic way
i try to deal with each situation as it is: what needs to be done?
what can i do to help it get done? am i doing it? or, have i done it?
and i think that this philosophy and way of acting
has given me all the contentment i have ever had in my life.
what i've been thinking about this morning is: membership
since the early 1700s Friends have had those whom they have
recorded as members
i infer from this that before that there was no recorded membership,
i don't consider myself to have a gift for vocal ministry
but anyway, Friends have never been a proselyting religion
and more than this, we don't even try to proselyte among ourselves
but the answer i've gotten that i've been thinking about today is,
and so this morning i asked the question,
the first thing it must mean
but then it came to me,
so i want to urge non-members not to believe the excuse
I think that the experience which I've had --
I was also thinking this morning, about the idea which was the theme
finally, i was remembering two comments from Pogo Possum,
i do not need to worry for myself
i have everything which i need
and i can and do take pride in that i am living on subsistence
i voluntarily, joyously gave the house to my ex-spouse when we divorced
i have everything which i need,
so that, sentimentally or not, i am one of the
i have this superstitious belief
and i hope that i may say, when the time comes,
Ogden Nash is one of my favorite poets
so he has a whole poem on parsley, for example which starts,
and another in which he poses the dilemma
but i've been thinking a lot about a personal dilemma of mine
anyway, i walk a lot and i've always enjoyed walking places
anyway again, i'm sure there are some people who feel
but there it is, my personal moral dilemma
A long time ago, it was in about 1978 or 1979,
i think that the closest i ever came to a Martin Lutheresque
statement was in about 1983 -- i had been refusing to pay war
taxes for some years, and i got a notice from the IRS putting
a levy on my bank account for $15,000
Our Mother (May, 1982)
Her Will (signed mb; 7/25/1982)
No Taxes For War (April 10, 1983)
The Lamentations of Yeshua (March, 1997)
Visionary Pragmatism (5/25/1997)
Love Which Remains (Kristina Perry on 11/2/1997)
The Queries (5/24/98)
Quakers and Police (10/11/98)
Choirs of Angels (Christmas day, 1999)
Speaking and Entering (12/23/01)
What Does God Required of Us (12/22/02)
What Can I Do More (12/25/02)
God's Will For the Meeting (12/29/02)
The Sight of Venus (Christmas, 2003)
The Teaching of Epictetus (1/25/04)
Christmas in Ancient Israel (December, 2005)
Life is Worth Living (12/25/05)
Trust (December, 2008)
Christmas and Miriam (December, 2010)
Fasting For Peace (Fall, 2010)
Hurrah For Ben Franklin (January 17th, 2011)
Message to President Obama (April 6th, 2011)
Happiness (November, 2011)
On Membership (January, 2012)
Messages From God (June 3, 2012)
I Have Everything Which I Need (7/24/2012)
To Drive or Not to Drive (August 26th, 2012)
Resentment and Trust (2/10/13)
The IRS and Me (4/23/13)
Message at 2013 PYM (8/3/13)
Persuasion (8/11/13)
Is a gift from Her our Mother.
believe it or not
I sometimes think, i'm the happiest person
in the world.
That few of us have to suffer
The inner suffering that I went through.
and the rest of the world is wrong
or perhaps there's no such thing as the will of God
without hurting too many people
or wasting too much time in inconsequential activity
and well that it is so
for then i can not look down upon any
on a morning like this,
That i first picked up a CNVA pamphlet
(Committee for Non-Violent Action)
Suggesting that we refuse to pay war taxes.
when i first filed a return
with a letter of protest
and no check
They kept after me
and eventually came and took it out of my bank account.
and got a reputation for being the meeting's
tax refusal counsellor
which i feel was undeserved
because of the mess i've made of my own case.
money back from the government
but about five years ago
i became self-employed -
and i haven't paid anything since
they put a levy on the company where i work
i remember when they walked in
and handed a paper to fred gey
i was being audited at the time
i called the auditor
and she ordered him to suspend collection
i went to see the collection agent
and convinced him that my net worth was zero
which it was
and he said he would leave me alone for a year
and the time is coming up again
and i don't know where they're going to get it
but as the time comes again
i keep thinking about it
and i realize
i can't write a check to the government
i can't give them any money for bombs and guns
nothing they can do to me
would be as bad as my doing that
but i wanted to speak about it today
and let you know where i stand
and that i appreciate the Meeting's support
O Jerusalem, Jerusalem, which killeth the prophets,
and stoneth them that are sent unto her! how often
would i have gathered your children together, as a
mother hen gathers her brood! and ye would not! Behold,
your house is left unto you desolate; and ye shall not
see me, until that day when ye say, Blessed is he that
cometh in the name of the Lord. (Luke 13:34-35)
And that is what he said on his arrival at Jerusalem, on what is now
called Palm Sunday. But that image of the mother hen gathering her brood
is, i feel, one of the most beautiful images of Jesus in the gospels.
If thou hadst known in this day, even thou, the things
which belong unto peace! but now they are hid from thine
eyes (or you are not able to see them)! For behold, the
days are coming, when thine enemies shall compass thee
round, and build a bank against thee, and dash thy walls
down upon thee, and thy children with thee! and there
shall not be left here one stone upon another! because
thou didst not know the time of thy visitation.
(Luke 19:41-44)
By "thy visitation" he is referring to his prophetic ministry to them
and he predicts the destruction of Jerusalem because they didn't listen
to him. He also says,
There shall not be left here one stone upon another
that shall not be thrown down." (Mark 13:2)
Daughters of Jerusalem, weep not for me, but rather weep
for yourselves and your children. For the days are coming,
when they shall begin to say, Blessed are the barren; and
the wombs that never bore; and the breasts that never gave
suck. For they shall say to the mountains, Fall on us; and
to the hills, Cover us. For if these things be done in the
green tree (that is, when the tree is green), what shall be
done in the dry (that is, when the tree is old and dry)?
(Luke 23:27-31)
These three poignant exclamations are my favorites, because they reveal
how much he cared for the people, and gave his life in a witness against
their attitude towards the Romans, because he foresaw that the Romans would
destroy Jerusalem. And they didn't heed him, and the war against the Romans
got worse, and finally the Romans compassed Jerusalem round, and destroyed it
and left there not one stone upon another.
I'm thinking of those who have departed from us
And of love
Not only of the love that is gone
But of the love which remains
And I pray that we can give more of that love
And to receive that love
Which transforms both the lover and the loved
And those who witness it
A kind of love which heals our wounds
And comforts us in isolation.
that every one of us can rise to his level, and learn to be
like him, having love for everyone, unconditional love for everyone.
when i had only been coming to meeting about 5 years
i went through a phase
where i must have been speaking frequently in meeting
i don't remember that it was that frequent
but anyway ministry and oversight appointed a committee
to call on me
i often think that that was the most important experience
i have had in connection with the meeting
but anyhow, i have kept coming ever since
and i have spoken less frequently
i realized that the reason i kept coming was because
for me silent meeting for worship
is the most beautiful way of being with people
that i know of
about people coming late to meeting
and it seems to me that our attitude should be one of welcoming
towards all who come to our meetings for worship
whether they're late or not
that her feeling was when someone entered late
"Oh, good, that person's here today."
It is certainly meant for me as well
And it was asked by Micah, a prophet in the Old Testament
2800 years ago
His answer was, To do justly, and to love mercy, and to walk
humbly with God
And i have been sitting here feeling moved almost to tears
by his question and by his answer
What is moving me almost to tears is not that he asked the question
nor even that he gave what could be the simplest and best answer of all time
but that he asked it TWENTY-EIGHT HUNDRED years ago
and here we are today still needing to ask it again
So to quote another Old Testament verse from the Psalms
How long, Lord, how long?
feeling that i have not done enough for the world
after reading her obituaries and what she had given the world
And this morning i started asking myself,
What can i do more than i'm doing?
I have a lot of responsibilities which other people depend on me for
and i can't just drop them without making it clear to everyone
that i am not going to be able to continue doing them
(And i'm continually reminded of a motto i once saw posted where i work:
Just because everything needs to be done
doesn't mean that YOU have to do EVERYTHING)
But the answer that came to me this morning
is that i must not become complacent about what i'm doing
and that i must continue to ask myself the question,
What more can i do than i'm already doing?
I have been trying to figure out God's will for the meeting
I have been considering three possible answers to this question
is for us to maintain the meeting for worship
and for all of us to keep coming regularly
and for those of us who don't come often to attend more frequently
would be for us to go out and get more people to attend meeting
But i set this aside because it seemed to me that it was more important
for all of us who are already here to reach out more to each other
and get to know each other better
so that our acquaintance will spread during the week
and not just be on Sunday morning
would be for us to be a force for social change in our community
and even to be an outspoken conscience of the community
The rub with this is, On which issues?
I'm sure that for each of us there are some issues
which are more important than others
so that it would be difficult to find an issue
which was the most important for every one of us in the meeting
might be to have committees for different purposes
but then that seemed to me to come more from human will than from divine will)
so i just wanted to express them all
It's a little strange that i've not read him before
Because i've always considered myself a Stoic--
At least since i understood what a Stoic was,
or at least had an idea of what it was.
I think that i came by it naturally
Because both my parents were Stoics;
So i learnt it by example, rather than reading.
In a section entitled "God in Man"
Which i've wanted to share with the meeting
Because it seems very close to Quakerism.
He says, Thou art a supreme object; there is a piece of God in you;
thou hast in thee something that is a portion of him.
Why are you ignorant of your high ancestry?
And a little later he says, Now he has given thee to thyself,
and saith, I had none more worthy of trust than thee;
keep this man such as he was made by nature--reverent, faithful, high,
unterrified, unshaken of passions, untroubled.
but then i began to wonder, God must have been able to find thousands of people
more worthy than myself...
(This morning i found another translation for that passage:
God did not mean, I had no one more worthy of trust than thee,
but rather, I have entrusted a portion of myself to thee;
see that thou keep it safe, such as it was made by nature...)
And i found another passage which was very helpful to me.
I'm in the position of being relieved of my responsibilities at work
(to put it somewhat euphemistically);
It has been happening in the aftermath of our being audited by HUD;
And i have been feeling sad about it, and discouraged;
Because it does not seem to be the natural way for it to happen.
(or as Friends say, It spoke to my condition);
He asks, What is the divine Law? and answers:
To hold fast that which is your own, and to claim nothing that is another's;
To use what is given you, and not to covet what is not given;
To yield up easily and willingly what is taken away from you,
giving thanks for the time that you have had it in your service.
How that the Old Testament sometimes seems bleak, and stark, and dry,
And suddenly I realized, it's because they didn't have Christmas
Moses did his best to provide them with festivals and holidays
I give him credit
But they didn't have Christmas,
They never knew about Christmas.
And we had a sort of meeting for worship as part of it
And we had some flute music,
and some readings
And throughout most of the worship they were crawling
all around the room
But there was a message given by one of the longtime attenders
of the meeting
which has stayed with me and i want to promulgate it
It's good for us to have children around
(no, he didn't mean, children just crawling around)
Because it shows us, Life is worth living.
'cause it seems to have affected me
Because i haven't always felt that that was true
i have lost count of the times i have doubted it
and thought instead that life is just too difficult
that children are proof of that truth
I've just had a grandchild for the second time;
The first is now 6 years old
or that watching them is enjoyable and even makes us happier
But that their actions and activity provides us with proof
that life is worth living.
(inspired by a message in meeting about the spiritual
value of a wristwatch)
i think i may have worn a wristwatch for one whole day in my life
which i prized because it was from them
and it helped me keep time during meeting
and know when to close the meeting
but it disappeared when my purse was stolen several years ago
there used to be out there, wall clocks, street clocks, window clocks
so that i just relaxed and didn't worry what the time was
'cause i knew around the corner or accross the street
i could check the time if i wanted to or needed to
and i even used to sneak a peek at people's wristwatches
so that i knew approximately what time it was anyway
closing meeting was always the biggest problem
next to that were medical appointments
these public clocks seem to be disappearing
so that today (2012) it is almost impossible to find one
stores don't have them
and fewer people wear wristwatches
because of the newfangled portable telephone-computers
that stores have taken down their clocks
because they believe that people shop longer if they can't see the time
and i was fascinated by the chapter on the Free Speech Movement
in October of 1964
because i was there -- i was in the crowd
and i stood on the top of the police car
and i led people in singing Bob Dylan's song "Blowing in the Wind"
but the book mentioned that Jack Goldberg's main claim to fame
was that he said, "Never trust anyone over 30"
(actually, what he said was, "You can't trust anyone over 30")
but this statement always rankled a little bit with me
because i had just turned 30 two months before the Free Speech Movement
and in it one of the characters says,
Always assume that people are better than you have
any reason for supposing them to be"
That seems like saying the opposite, in other words, Trust people
Be patterns, be examples in all places where you come
Then you may walk cheerfully over the earth
Answering that of God in overy one.
(this message seems like a lot of quotations):
The best of men is like water.
Water benefits all things, and does not seek to exploit them.
It seeks the lowly places which all disdain
Wherein it comes near the Tao. (D.T.Suzuki's translation)
i will quote from Ken Keyes as he taught at the Living Love ashram in Berkeley:
Love everyone unconditionally, including yourself.
i have striven to practice that now for thirty-five years
though i must say, to paraphrase Benjamin Franklin,
that no matter how much i may have achieved the appearance of that behavior
i am still very far from the reality.
but I hope to someday.
i refused to pay taxes for war for many years,
Without having any visible effect on the military policy of this country
But i finally stopped when the IRS itself urged me to compromise,
And i also had realized that the IRS were not the enemy,
They were just people trying to do their job.
What have i done lately to bring about peace?
What more can i do?
And the thought came to me, i could fast until we renounced war.
But i know i'm no Gandhi,
And the government would not pay any attention to me,
But perhaps, if several of us pledged to do it,
We might have some effect somewhere.
which i have written, and i want to sing one of them for you today.
We are one great family; uncles, aunts, and cousins are we.
For we are all children of God,
and everyone everywhere is another child of God.
Let us care for each other as God cares for ev'ryone.
you were considered a Friend if you called yourself one
and behaved according to Friends' ways
and i am standing here trying to make sure that i get the right words
because i want what i say to be clear, and correct, and irrefutable
in the sense that we go out and try to recruit new members
well, i guess we want to get other people to follow our ways
but we don't care if they call themselves Friends or not
to recruit our own attenders into membership
i've often asked active attenders if they've considered membership
and asked them why they haven't applied
and i've gotten various answers
some of them say, well, i don't believe in God
but i tell them that being a member has nothing to do with
whether you believe in God or not
or they say, i'm just not ready
Membership doesn't mean anything.
as i was driving with someone to meeting,
What SHOULD membership mean? assuming that it's true
that membership doesn't mean anything (which i don't really believe)
is that you come regularly to meeting for worship
and the second thing is that you come regularly to meeting for business
but unhappily there are many recorded members
who don't do either of those things
and many non-recorded attenders who do
there's also the question of giving financial support to the meeting
but that's also not true of some members
and true of some non-members
as i was sitting in my little corner this morning,
that the most important meaning in becoming a recorded member is,
that the Meeting is your spiritual HOME,
that it is like your spiritual FAMILY,
and those other things just follow from that fact.
that membership doesn't mean anything,
because it DOES mean what i have just stated
and so i urge you to consider whether the Meeting means that to you.
but i shouldn't call it an experience but an insight --
of an opening, the voice of God, like the dove descending,
was when i was lying in bed one night,
i remember where I was living, and it was in 1979,
and the thought came into my head, like God had put it there, that
The world turns round, not because we take care of our own needs,
but because we help take care of the needs of each other.
later i derived a sort of corollary from that,
that I didn't have to worry about my own needs anyway,
because God was taking care of all my needs,
and that left me free to work on taking care of the needs of others.
of the last Quarterly Meeting, i think,
that the Meeting is greater than the sum of its members,
and i thought to myself, Well, that's sort of self-evident,
because the Meeting has a corporate existence,
and continues in spite of who's in it,
and i began remembering all the many members I have known over the years
who are now gone, dozens of them, a hundred or more,
great and remarkable people, giants on whose shoulders we stand
(Russ Jorgensen, the Stephensons, the Palleys, the Hecks, Robert Schutz,
the Cunninghams, the Schaffrans, the Nelsons, Clare Millikan, John Merlin,
Vanita Blum, and on and on)
that's my favorite comic strip:
one where Howland Owl storms into the panel, grousing, That's gratitude for you!
and Turtle, who's sort of the court fool for the Okefenokee,
turns and says, It is? Thanks, thanks! I can use some gratitude!
and another where Pogo and Porkypine are having a discussion
and Pogo says, The way I figger it, Porky, is that every man's heart
is eventual in the right place; and Porky answers, And I figgers, Pogo,
that if a man is gonna be wrong about something, that's the best thing
to go on being wrong about, till forever!
for there are so many people out there who are worse off than i am
and i need to worry about and help them.
and i have ALWAYS had everything which i need
if there is something which i need that i do not have
then i go out and get it
so as not to pay any taxes for bombs and guns
and have lived on subsistence for many years
and it has brought me joy and peace
despite arguments with two lawyers who were against my doing that
and i told my parents to bypass me in their wills
and leave it all to my children
which they did
no one tells you to do that unless they're serious
the love i have for my children and their love for me is priceless
needing nothing which i do not have
wanting everything that i do have
and wanting nothing which i do not need
nor anything that i do not have
richest persons on earth
for what do i lack?
nothing!
that God is taking care of all my needs
even though i don't believe in God
as Jean Valjean said in his last moments,
i do not know whether She who gave me life is satisfied with me
in heaven, or wherever She is;
i have done what i could.
i think because he has this way of taking serious subjects
and making them light
and also taking light subjects
and making them serious
I'd like to be able to say a good word for parsley,
but I can't.
And after all what can you find to say about something which
even the dictionary dismisses as a biennial umbelliferous plant?
Should he hope to feel sad or to feel fine
because he knows that if he feels bad, after a while he'll feel better
and if he feels fine, he knows that after a while he'll feel worse
which is, Should i drive to meeting and be on time
and pollute the atmosphere and increase global warming,
or should i walk and be late?
i omit any mention of whether to take the bus
after all, transit service has deteriorated greatly in recent years
and it requires split-second timing if you're going to catch it
and you still then have to wait for to transfer
and i tell myself, as long as i can walk i know that i'm alive
but still, it takes me 50 minutes to get to meeting if i walk
and it's an exhilarating experience
but it means i have to get out of the house by 10:10
if i'm not going to be late
that it's better to be on time than it is to not drive
or in other words better to drive than to be late
which i fret about a lot
i felt i needed to refuse to pay state income taxes.
i had been a long time refuser of paying federal income tax
because it was used for war,
and i felt that i should refuse to pay state income tax
because some it was used for the gas chamber.
and of course i didn't want the state to use the gas chamber.
but, i wasn't sure of this,
so i asked the Meeting for a clearness committee.
well, they appointed one, and it was a very weighty
committee: Joachim Leppmann was on it, and Sandy Turner
and Jan Marinissen, who was the AFSC Prison Secretary.
we met three or four times,
and the result was that i did refuse to pay state tax that year.
one thing i learned, was that the state is much faster
than the IRS, they were at my door within a month.
But i don't remember the clearness committee trying to
persuade me one way or another; mostly they just listened
to me, and that's what a clearness committee is suppose
to do, i guess. i had been a federal tax refuser since 1965
and i didn't ask for a clearness committee then, i just went
ahead and refused and took the consequences.
and i was thinking about the craze that happened this past
week, when the whole world, or at least the whole nation
seemed to have gone crazy over something called the Super Bowl
which i knew nothing about, i didn't know who was playing;
but everywhere i turned people were talking excitedly about
it, and it seemed trivial to me, i couldn't care less about
who won, it was sort of like two ants worrying about which
one was the tallest; or like Winnie-the-Pooh's jingle
about Tigger:
If Piglet Was bigger/or fatter or stronger/
or bigger than Tigger/if Tigger was smaller/
then Tigger's bad habit/of bouncing at Rabbit/
Would matter no longer/if Rabbit were taller.
but earlier i was thinking about my tendency of feeling
resentment; and i know that feeling resentful is bad for you
lt's just like pouring poison into your stomach.
and then i started thinking about trusting the Meeting
and i should ask the Meeting for help around my addiction
to feeling resentment whenever things don't go the way i
want them to.
but i'm rising now, to tell you about this, and trusting
that by speaking about it, here, in Meeting, that i will be
more able to overcome this addiction.
i remember getting the notice, and feeling like a concrete
block had dropped on my head, and i paced back and forth in my
living room trying to figure out what i was going to do
and then the thought came to me, There is NOTHING they can
do to me which would be WORSE than my paying for bombs and guns
to kill people
and that thought sustained me in living at subsistence for
the next 12 years in main;aining my refusal to pay war taxes
i was fortunate in being able to get self-employment where
i could set my own pay, with no withholding; and i set it just
high enough to cover my living expenses, so that when the IRS
tried to attach me they had to take a financial statement from
me; and it always showed that there was nothing for them to
take: i had no property, no bank account, i did have a car and
at one point they threatened to take it but even they admitted
that it had no market value; and also i had instructed my parents
to bypass me in their wills and leave it to my children
so i feel that that is the most important thing i have done
in my life; as is says in an old Latin round:
I am poor;
i have nothing;
so i give my heart.